Today (May 5th) marks twelve months since the last time I drank alcohol.
I want to keep this one to the point. So many aspects of my life have changed over the last year and it’s not easy to communicate the positive impact that has been happening. It’s overwhelming sometimes. Here are a few things that I have noticed in the last year:
1. NO F*CKING HANGOVERS.
I don’t hate much in life. In fact, I really only hate two things: mosquitoes, and hangovers. The best hangover cure is to eliminate it all together.
2. Being Present & Aware.
I found one thing to greatly overwhelm most others after a year of not drinking, and that is a heightened sense of awareness. Feeling feelings is a wonderful thing.
3. True Relationships. (with humans and nature)
I found that you can connect deeper with people when you are both sharp and maintained. I know so many people who have had relationships over the years and sometimes were completely based around drinking. I have heard this line a million times, “Yeah, all of the problems that we’ve had have involved drinking.” I want a deeper connection with humans that being half-numbed all the time. Furthermore the connection I have with nature and everything alive feels stronger. More synergistic. I think once you begin to remove toxins from your body your mind starts to sing with the energies surrounding it.
4. Increased Health & Focus.
I’m not a doctor, and I’m not even a fake doctor, but I KNOW that my internal organs are thanking me.
5. Less Toxic Vibrations.
You always hear about people eliminating clutter in their lives, throwing away things they do not need, and that is all great. The fact is that most people invite negativity into their lives by how they choose to surround themselves with. Since not drinking or being in bars, I have found a sense of calmness in my life and my friendships.
6. No Losing Consciousness.
Remember back in your teenager years or (now) when you get absolutely intoxicated, then hear all about your night the next morning? Yeah, I had totally had enough of that. Consciousness is King.
7. No Taxis.
Since I haven’t had a drink I haven’t needed to take a taxi anywhere. You know how it feels? Damn good. I’m not sure if you’ve heard or not but the taxi system in Calgary, AB is ridiculous and I’d literally do anything to avoid taking a taxi. Unless money isn’t an object. Then I’ll take a taxi. Two of them.
7. No Longer Needing To Displace Reality.
Alcohol robs you. It robs you of your wallet, your senses, your relationships, your health, your mind and your soul. [tweet this] I no longer need to displace reality and now that just being alive is the natural high, I find myself falling in love with more things (like kayaking) that I find so meditative and serene. I love feeling at peace.
Overall, I see these being the elements of being a better person. And remember, too much of anything will make you an addict.
Have you ever tried to stop drinking for a long period of time? Did you find it extremely difficult? I’m curious to hear your story, please feel free to comment below!
I see quotes and sayings daily about comfort zones and how you should get out of your comfort zone in an effort to grow and progress as people. Having been on a path of discovering myself over the last few years I’ve learned about comfort zones and I’m going to get deep on you.
Now here’s the thing; when you let yourself slide into comfort and convenience to the point where you don’t feel feelings anymore, you gradually forget the essence & vitality of life.
I’ve discovered that in order to implement tangible positive change in your life you must first change the framework in your mind about how you perceive life and create new mental/neural thought pathways and patterns, then take action physically.
Today I was thinking about purpose and what the hell we are doing here on planet Earth. I began by thinking about Life and what the goal of life is. Which turned out to be pretty easy to figure out: The goal of life is to stay alive. Fact.
Deeper than that, what is the purpose of life? Some would say…. Find love, have children, find compassion, find yourself, learn about your soul, achieve awakening or enlightenment, etc. And that’s great. It could be anything, but let’s fast forward and pretend you’ve lived out your life and you are at peace. You’ve laughed, cried, fallen in love, learned about past lives – So what. What’s the purpose? What’s the big idea behind any of it?
It all comes down to two things: the moment, and your surroundings. The only thing that truly matters is being present in the moment and in the flow of life with your surroundings. [tweet this]
The ONLY thing you need to do right now and ever is: Fully invest and immerse yourself in what you’re doing in this moment. You never know when they end and the accumulation of those moments are your life.
You need to slay your comfort zone to bring back the essence & vitality of life – YOUR moment. Live it as if it were your last. [tweet this]
Most of my close friends and family who have been on expeditions with me think I’m crazy. For several reasons, I suppose, but one thing that always comes up is how I’m audaciously trying to push expedition storytelling. To bring you closer to the action I have begun using Snapchat.
I’ve spent half of my life or more surrounded by technology. I guess you could say I’m a 21st Century Digital Boy. 🙂 I adopted the internet and social media at a very early on and know my way around the VHS and TV remotes. Although I know technology, I have never really “depended” on it. Since becoming an Explorer and facing a few dangers, I’ve learned that sometimes technology (and water) can save our lives. This is a post about being connected and staying safe in the outdoors.
I first heard about inReach Canada one day in 2015 when I came across pro paraglider Gavin McClurg on Instagram. I immediately thought two things: holy crap this guy is a renegade, and, he takes his profession very seriously. Two things I admire. I saw some posts on his feed about his inReach Explorer GPS device and this got me thinking about safety while in the back country. Taking about being prepared and having a first-aid kit seem obvious but you’d be surprised how many people are unaware and unsafe while exploring whether that be solo with other hikers.
I’ve always loved disconnecting, being with my own thoughts free of distraction, thinking deeply about nature and the universe and what it all means. However when I’m on an expedition I’m constantly thinking about how to push boundaries while staying safe. Taking calculated risks while making sure I come home to my family and friends.
When I’m on an expedition I am always thinking about how to more effectively share stories and experiences. I want to push the boundaries of expedition storytelling and part of that is involving the audience. Technology can become limited or useless depending on how far you trek into the back country and when mountaineering I only want to carry the minimal amount of gear on hand; one pound feels like 10lbs when you’re 8,000+ up a mountain. Apart from cameras and film equipment, social media has played a large role in expedition storytelling but beyond that – I want people to be able to SEE and DIRECTLY MAP my adventures. Beyond the safety functions of the device, the inReach Explorerallows me to publish and share my story in real time in ways that I have never done in my history of exploration.
It doesn’t matter if you’re a renegade adventurer, seasonal backpacker, have a family or not – you want to stay alive out there.
The best way to do that hands-down is by letting people know where you are by having a GPS device on you so you can be located promptly in the event of danger or an emergency. With the inReach Explorer you can now embed and promote your next adventure on your Facebook Fan Page and provide track points so your family and friends can follow your journeys. Directly connected to my Facebook page, the device will automatically sends out your position every 10 minutes. You can also send out updates from the device to social media networks like Facebook and Twitter with location updates so your family, friends and followers will know your location and see where you are. I used mine at the end of every day to let people know how high I was during a summit. Every message you send is was accompanied by a link that shows your live GPS position as well as previous positions on a satellite map. If an emergency ever did occur, I’d push the inReach’s SOS button and a long lasting signal would be sent out directly to a rescue team. View my inReach Map on my Facebook Page here.
Also, don’t forget the essentials.
Multi-tool. Head torch. Rope. Matches. Knife. Extra socks. Sunglasses. First Aid. Sunscreen. Obviously food & water. GPS unit or beacon/transceiver.
These devices are an advanced way to stay in touch with loved ones anywhere at anytime, a real must-have for any outdoor enthusiast.
On November 8, 2015 I had all my photography equipment and a bunch of my exploring gear stolen from my truck at the Banff Mountain Film Festival in Banff National Park, AB. Turns out, that day was a blessing in disguise. The following is the story of what happened and what I learned from being robbed.
MY FACEBOOK POST JUST HOURS AFTER THE THEFT:
So just to update everyone – the gear has still not been recovered. I kept an eye on Kijiji and the Banff Center security was notified and I had the RCMP involved. That being said, the thieves could have taken the camera equipment anywhere to sell it, but that is not what this post is about. This post is about how an act of robbery could actually turn out being a blessing in disguise. First of all, I’ve had many people ask me about some of the action associated with my social media postings after the theft. They are as follows:
Over 200+ Re-tweets on Twitter (by far the most re-tweets I have ever received. Up to that point, the most re-tweets I had on a single tweet was 52)
The most replies on Twitter I have ever had on a single tweet (so many that I had trouble replying to every one of them)
168 Shares on Facebook (also by far the most shares I have ever received on a post)
The most comments on Facebook I have ever had on a single post (96+)
660NEWS Radio Calgary interviewed me about the theft incident to raise awareness over radio (article link below)
Postmedia Network interviewed me about the incident (article link below)
I hear people say that negative news travels further than positive news. Which may be true in some cases, but compassion can TRANSCEND further into the feelings of people, and that can be way more powerful than a negative story. This is also a two-way street; people had compassion for me and my daughter because our stuff was stolen, but what about the thief? Honestly, after a day or two I gained compassion for whoever broke into my truck and stole everything. Why? Because he or she is in a worse place than I am. Who thinks robbery is cool? People who are desperate, or dumb people. Either way – they cannot bounce back harder or stronger from this… I can.
2. Don’t underestimate the power of your network.
You know, I’ve been on Twitter since 2009, Instagram since 2014, and have been on Facebook forever (but have only taken it seriously since 2014) and I always knew I had an awesome tribe. I love my friends, I love people who comment and interact with my feeds and social media has forever played a HUGE role in my career and personal life. BUT my mind was blown that day and the PURE LOVE I felt from everyone melted my heart – even people I rarely interact with or who I just met shared and offered all kinds of help. Some friends even set up a GoFundMe page and others just reached out and offered me money to help me get some new equipment. I was overwhelmed by the amount of support I felt from my friends, followers, and the community for the coming weeks. I love you all, you have no idea.
3. Things get way, way better.
Seriously, they do. After I posted my outreach post across my social media networks, the love and support from people was overwhelming enough – that night the kind folks at GoPro reached out to me and offered to send me all new GoPro equipment. (photo below) LIKE, WHAT! I also posted the image below on my Facebook which got more ‘Likes” than any other photo I have ever posted. (500+ Likes)
Then the VERY NEXT DAY Instagram made me a Suggested User, becoming a top-choice account as chosen by Instagram, drastically increasing my following on Instagram. Then the next day Canadian Geographic magazine reached out to me to publish one of my photos in their JAN/FEB issue. Then a friend of mine on Twitter who I’ve tweeted back and forth with named Joey Bergeron (@joeybergeron) sent me a note and said that he was willing to send me his Canon 30D DSLR camera plus a couple lenses and everything I’d need to get back on my feet. Like, wow. I got emotional like a roller coaster for all of those days but Joey, my man, you really struck a chord with me. I love you. Furthermore someone at Canon Canada saw my post and I’m now in touch with them. (more to come on that hopefully)
4. You have a choice when you get robbed: You can pout, or forge forward.
Unfortunately, robbery happens. Sometimes we can avoid it, and sometimes we can’t. I say that this theft was a blessing because at the moment after getting into my truck with my daughter and realizing we had been robbed, I got upset. However, I knew that being robbed was something I could not control. This instance, was out of my control. So I did not allow myself to become clouded with negativity. That day my daughter and I planned on going indoor rock climbing (her first time climbing indoors) after the film festival, and I looked into the back seat and said to her, “Sweetheart, it’s lame that we got robbed. But there is nothing we can do about it right now other than report it. You know, Christmas is coming up and I’m sure if you ask Santa nicely he will bring you a new LeapPad, but this theft is not going to ruin our day or our spirits – we ARE going back inside and we are going rock climbing.” And we did. And it was amazing. So amazing that for those moments while we climbed, we both forgot about the robbery incident. Forge forward, and come back stronger.
5. Life is about being alive, not things.
It always sucks having your stuff stolen, but at the end of the day – it’s just stuff. Stuff that I LOVED DEEPLY, but I am thankful the robbery didn’t happen while my daughter and I were in the car, and that nobody got hurt. It could have been a lot worse in more than one way. I mean, if I would have witnessed the robbery I’d be in jail right now for like, murder. Or like however many broken legs.
6. Don’t underestimate the other guys greed.
Frank Lopez said it best in Scarface…
6. Never leave items of deep value alone. (obviously)
Even if your vehicle is locked, even if you have a security system – if you want to keep it, always have it on you, in a locker, or within sight.
Have you ever been robbed before or been the victim of a theft? How did you bounce back?
I have decided to start a blog to more effectively document my experiences while exploring, and show a deeper side of myself I typically have not shown before. Up until now my experience with writing has been micro-blogging (shorter forms of content) which I’ve mainly communicated across my social media networks.
I figured this first post would be a bit of an introduction. First things first – YES, my first name is Dax (I get asked this all the time). You’ll notice from my website that the content is mostly focused on exploration and creativity; because at the core of myself I am an explorer, and creativity has been by my side as long as I can remember. Prior to becoming an explorer I was a professional creative director and designer working in branding and brand development. I still selectively take on clients who require a visual identity (logo creation, brand identity system), rebranding, communication design, as I love creating lasting, memorable identities for ambitious people (and ❤ everything to do with visual design). Some of my branding work can be found here.
When I began my journey in the outdoors (starting at the very end of 2013) I started finding myself in Nature. I had a very out-of-body experience in an early Winter morning and this led me into the wilderness.
I randomly drove on the highway towards Bragg Creek, AB, parked my SUV, and walked straight into the woods. After about an hour and 45 minutes of exploring I unexpectedly found dream catchers, feathers, tipis; it was as if that entire day was the first moment I saw (felt) Nature for the first time in my life. I began taking photos on my smartphone and began documenting photos and experiences on Instagram. My next post will be all about how this day changed my life…